Thursday, 5 June 2014

Blog #8 - Is There Something Holding a Hoarder Back From Positive Progress?


We now know why hoarders hoard. So now we might ask this question; “Why can’t they just stop?”

It seems so simple. Just letting the syllables roll off your tongue without the slightest idea of what those string of words actually mean. But maybe hoarders ask themselves the exact same question..

Hoarding is just an annoying cycle of repetition. Repeating itself every day, until it becomes monotonous and boring.

Hoarders have nothing left after their life of hoarding has disappeared. That could be the culprit for holding a hoarder back from cleaning out their space, both physically and mentally. It might just take some convincing, or some other view on what is happening, or it could take a lot of work. It really all depends on who the person is, and what is going on in their head.

Fear is defiantly associated with the ‘after-math’ of a troubled hoarder. But why fear? Hoarders feel unsafe and unguarded without all this materialized belongings surrounding them. It literally drives them to the crazy house. Because of all those years in hiding or shame, it frightens the hoarders to come out in the open. Even being thrown back into society would be a scary event, not to mention all the things that remind them of their previous life; the life of hoarding.

So going back to the question of why can’t hoarders just throw the stuff out and move on. It really isn’t that simple. To the outside world it may be, but only because we have labeled and stereotyped this kind of mental disorder in several ways.

You may be thinking to yourself that hoarding is not a mental illness, but in fact it is. Anyone can be diagnosed as a compulsive hoarder. And like I mentioned before, it is something in a hoarders brain that helps them to believe items with absolutely no value or use, can be used.
 

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